Presence in Rest & Safe Refuge Meditation
Finding Rest in All Seasons
Written by Jen M.
In the warm Funky Buddha studios, our monthly focus for our physical yoga practices is: REST. We’ll explore both active and passive rest within the familiar shapes of Down Dog and Savasana.
If you’ve practiced in any of our studio spaces, you are probably well acquainted with these two positions–it’s quite possible that you’ve never taken a class without them! With familiarity we sometimes go on autopilot and fall into pattern. Pattern can be so incredibly helpful in life–but with pattern, we can sometimes lose presence–and presence is kind of like the whole big thing around here! In the yoga sutras, Atha (AHT-huh) means “now; presence;” to be present is to be mindful, to be here now, in the only time that exists. Let’s visit these poses, with presence—Atha.
Down Dog:
Downward Facing Dog is considered a restful pose in our yoga studios but If you’re newer to bearing weight in the hands and shoulders, or if you have some tight muscle areas, this yoga pose can feel anything but restful. We invite you to be kind to yourself with time & support.
Time: Perhaps shorten or eliminate your time in this pose by subbing in Table Top, Dolphin, Puppy, or Child’s Pose.
Support: Try out a low block or rolled up mini mat (at the front of each Funky Buddha studio!) under each hand to reduce wrist pressure. A greater bend in the knees + wider feet can accommodate tight hamstrings. There are endless possibilities for micro adjustments to add comfort or greater awareness.
Down Dog Pattern: We tend to place limbs to mat in the same spot each time, even using the same spacing from hands to feet at each practice. If you’ve taken many western yoga classes, you may even find that in child’s pose, you start to build an expectation or yearning to move into down dog–as we often pattern a yoga practice in this order.
Can you…
Take a moment to enjoy the sense of familiarity, sturdiness, safety that it brings?
Notice the ways you habitually move once in your down dog, pedaling heals, wagging the head, notice how your breath falls.
Become aware of each fresh sensation here and now, Atha.
Shifts to Choose Presence:
Explore shortening or lengthening– notice how the tilt of your pelvis changes with it.
Shortening Stance: may bring a more neutral or posterior tilt and can shift more weight to the hands.
Lengthening Stance: Enable an anterior tilt with the tailbone pointed up and more ease pressing the heels toward the floor for a stretch.
Wider Feet: May allow your torso to settle lower, causing a finer stretch down the back and shoulders.
Closer Feet: Might offer more stretch down the backs of the legs and ability to hug the legs inward.
Savasana:
This posture concludes every single Funky Buddha Yoga class to calm your nervous system, reduce fatigue and promote healing–traditionally used to bridge the gap between the physical practice and meditation. Unlike the active rest and transitory nature of downward facing dog, the aim of savasana is passive rest- little to no muscular engagement, just relaxation. The easiest pose of them all, one might think! But slowing down is not often embraced in our busy world…
Savasana Pattern: Some love this grand pause, some loath the stillness–it can depend on the day, our mood, our experiences before arriving at this final pose. Perhaps there is an expectation that it is easy to rest. Though, we also know in our modern-day lifestyle, that stillness and quiet can be the most challenging request.
Can you…
Ask where your mind wanders when you land here?
Notice what your body does as it settles on your mat.
Savasana Presence: In a busy and demanding world, it can be quite a challenge to still the mind and body. If you find discomfort being supine or settling the comings of future/past thought patterns, try these at the end of your next Funky flow.
Mind: A great presence-finder is right in your own breath! When your mind naturally wanders, take a big enough breath to draw your attention back to this moment again. Sometimes narrating each breath as you allow it to fall unforced can settle a wandering mind. Perhaps return to bigger breath when needed to interrupt thought patterns that are extra clingy.
Body: If your back or hips feel too tight to lay flat, consider a variation of Savasana known as Constructive Rest. Also known as Reverse Butterfly, tent your knees upward, plant your feet about as wide as the edges of your mat, and allow your knees to tip inward toward one another. Perhaps flip it over into Crocodile Pose and try a belly Savasana, which holds its own lovely set of benefits.
Both: A body scan is proven to sway the nervous system from fight or flight toward rest and digest mode. Focus your attention from the top of your head down to your toes, taking a few moments to tense and tighten each area–and subsequently release them along the way.
Here in the mitten state, we love our seasons; their stark contrasts and ephemeral nature help us appreciate each few months more. As we ourselves are a part of nature, these rhythms exist within us. While there is much darkness and stillness outside and often a great cacophony of holiday season busyness, in our own little worlds–can we also embrace moments to cherish stillness and quiet?
May you take the time and space to explore these resting poses in supportive ways with us. May we find presence in this breath, this practice, this season–this precious life.
Safe Refuge in Your Bliss Body
Written by LL
To finish out our year, we’re revisiting the Koshas (or 5 bodies of yoga), one of our main themes for meditation at Funky Buddha Yoga. As we slow down into this naturally restful season, we’re reflecting that in our physical and mental yoga practices. Throughout December, we’ll learn about the Bliss Body and how to find safe refuge within it.
What is your Bliss Body?
Waaaaay back in January of this year, we talked about the Koshas, which are one of our main themes for the year. In essence, we exist in 5 different bodies:
Physical body (physical form, nourishment)
Energy body (breath, life force)
Mental body (knowledge, emotion, thoughts)
Wisdom body (intuition, consciousness)
Bliss body (peace, love, joy, contentment, your true nature)
Your Bliss Body is your essence, who you are without any layers of should and supposed to. The Bliss Body is who you are before anyone told you how to be. At our essence, we are made up of connection, kindness, compassion, empathy, and love. We were each born with a natural and innate desire to connect–to laugh, cry, feel, to see each other and be seen–and to belong.
Your Bliss Body is not something you have to get to or attain; it’s something you carry with you all the time. It is more of a remembering than a learning of something new. It is the True You that can move through every moment of your life with gratitude, grace and generosity. This part of you sees and understands your fears but never shames you for being afraid or making mistakes.
Bliss Body + Safe Refuge
The idea of your Safe Refuge comes in to create a safe space within you, and often is part of your Bliss Body. Safe Refuge is, in part, a remembering of your innate goodness and connection. It’s also cultivation of a loving relationship with the vehicle that carries you around to experience life–your physical body.
How do I Cultivate Safe Refuge?
For folks that already have a loving and reverent relationship with their body, the Safe Refuge is readily available to contact and connect with. For many of us, we need to cultivate this love and reverence and remember that our bodies are trying their darndest to keep us safe, protected, happy, and healthy. The more you love and care for yourself and all 5 Bodies that you live within, the more accessible your Safe Refuge becomes.
The most important part of cultivating a relationship with your Safe Refuge, and rediscovering your Bliss Body, is to remember that they are always right here. In the present moment. Right here with you. You ARE your Bliss Body. You ARE your Safe Refuge. They cannot be lost or taken from you, and they can only grow stronger as you cultivate your connection with them.
Why is this Important?
There are plenty of places in our mind where we carry judgement and critical thoughts about ourselves. We tend to be quite familiar with our quick-to-judge parts because they’ve kept us safe. You can thank those parts too, as they’ve worked hard for you! And those are often the parts that need rest the most.
It’s so key, for our individual and global health and healing, that each of us remember and reconnect with our gentle, kind, loving, and safe places within. Let your stressed, overwhelmed and exhausted parts land in your Safe Refuge to remember that you carry Bliss with you everywhere you go. These practices can relieve stress, build emotional and physical resiliency, and allow more gentleness and joy into your life.
Try this on:
Place a hand over your heart, take a big deep breath, and feel your body fill with air. Consider all the organs and systems that are at work to allow that breath to become life within you: respiratory and cardiac systems, ribs and muscles play a part in this.
Take a moment to thank your body for its wisdom in letting you take this breath, without you needing to think about any of it; it’s just your body’s nature to nurture and care for you.
Now, imagine what feels like a Safe Refuge for you. It might be a place in nature you know and love. Sometimes, just the feeling of your hand on your heart and noticing that connection as your Safe Refuge.
Once you have this image, or contact point, in mind, take another deep breath and invite yourself to soften and relax into your Safe Refuge. Eventually you can allow the imagined image to fade and simply feel your breath moving through you. Remind your body, mind, and heart: you are safe here. Take one more breath and notice how you feel.
If you’d like to dive deeper, we invite you to join us for our monthly meditation circle!
Check out our Youtube for an overview of these concepts or a meditation practice to try them on <3
As always, we hope that you join us M-F at 7:30am for Funky Buddha Yoga’s free, live, virtual meditation to learn more practices, nuances, and dive deeper into a plethora of tools that can bring your practice off your mat and into your daily life <3
